Welcome to a new year, new month, and day 1 of 365 opportunities. As we prepare to return to work and school, I hope you had a wonderful holiday break. I hope you feel renewed and ready to conquer you dreams! I wanted to take a moment to encourage you. I wanted to leave four quick tips to help you embrace the possibilities and magic for the second half of the 2018-2019 school year.

Yes, You Can

Your mindset about school and education is crucial for your success. I want you to stay positive and believe in yourself. Yes, you can take an honors class. Yes, you can take an AP class. Yes, you can create a great science fair project. Yes, you can find money to go to college. Yes, you can read, write, think, and grow! This is the year where you go for it!

Who’s in Your Circle?

Who are the people in your life that will support, encourage, and celebrate your success? Who are the people that can give you sound advice and help you when you feel unsure or stuck? These are the people that I want you to keep in your circle. You may have a circle of friends at school and a circle of support at home. Continue to support and nourish these relationships. If there are any negative people in your life, cut them off. 2019 is the year for you to shine!

Make Mini-Goals

If you’re like me, you tend to set goals that you want to accomplish. Instead of focusing on one big goal, break down your goal into several mini-goals. Imagine how great you’ll feel when you take steps to accomplish your goals. I’ll give you a few examples based on grade level.

  • Elementary school: If you want to learn your multiplication tables, take 30 minutes and practice every day.
  • Middle school: If you want to pull up your math and English grades, commit to staying after school to get extra help twice a week.
  • High School: If you want to find scholarship money to go to college, complete one essay and application a week.

There’s an old proverb that says the best way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time. It’s the same thing with goals. Once you complete small steps towards your goal, you’ll accomplish that goal in no time!

Manage Your Time

Time is one precious resource. You spend 7.5 hours a day at school learning, reading, writing, and taking tests. You may stay after school a couple of hours for after school activities, like a club or sports team. Instead of staying after school, you may have extracurricular activities outside of school, like dance practice, church activities, or practice with a traveling sports team. Once you get home, you’ve got homework and studying to do. You may have chores to complete and dinner time with family. If you’re an older student, you may have a part time job after school.

You have a LOT going in your life. Make sure you manage your time. Here are other things that I did not include in this list.

  • Playing video games
  • Scrolling through social media
  • Talking/texting/tweeting for hours with friends
  • Taking 2-3 hour naps
  • Hanging out before you get homework done

When it comes to school, take care of the things you have to take care of first. Get your homework and studying done. Make sure you carve out family time. If you have too much on your plate, talk to a parent or your school counselor. We can help you figure out if you need to take some things off your plate. You have the weekend to have fun. You can socialize with your friends in school. Scholars have a knack for balancing school, home, and fun.




Published by fallondodson

I am a school counselor by day, and business owner by night!

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